Positive Realization leads to Perfect Analyzing

Lets take a situation-
You are walking down the lane with your boyfriend,holding hands and just enjoying the romantic atmosphere. Suddenly,your boyfriend gets a call and then he says,"Got to go" and runs away leaving you alone in the lane.
You stand there without getting even a hint of what happened in just a moment's pass.
Now,What's the first thing you would do?
Run after your boyfriend or wait for him to return?
Well,I think you would do none of them 'cause you would now just sit and think and cry.
Think what,about what might have happened??
Well,in most of the cases the first thought would be -"How could he be so careless,how could he leave me alone and run away like this without even caring,he could have spoken to me for a sec atleast".
But yes,you may think after that he must be in some sort of confusion or instant need or tension that he didn't even get time to speak to me or inform me of the situation.

I just wanted to prove what generally happens,what our mind gasps about any instant occurence.All we do is firstly and fore mostly, we put ourselves in the central position and then analyse the matter/situation around us,without realizing the depth to which the situation extends upto.

Realization and Analyzing are two completely different modes of Thinking.However, a perfect realization leads to a perfect analysing of a situation and helps us in drawing a perfect conclusion.
We are humans,we think a lot.What we realize is what we use to analyze. But the thing is our day-to-day life has become so crowded that we are forced to think negative most of the times. Whenever we are put to unwanted and unpredicted situations we atfirst perceive things to be against us,without realizing that the true point may not be what our thoughts have pushed us to.
So,instead of crying over matters that later turn out to be valueless,it's better to brood over how to handle them in yhe most positive way we can, 'cause POSITIVE REALIZATION LEADS TO PERFECT ANALYSING OF ANY SITUATION.

As per the example I gave, what if your boyfriend ran away in order to handle the accident of a friend, would you not curse yourself for thinking bad of the event?What if hr brought back a surprise for you,would you not laugh at your innocence? Or what if he had a matter even less important than your date, but all you had to do is not think negative and just be there at peace 'cause things do not happen without a reason.Take your way, he will give an explanation for you to analyze and reach an appropriate conclusion.

Life always surprises us with the most unpredictable events,it depends in us that how we realize and analyze them to make ourselves stand up on perfectly concluded platform.

---Ipsy